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Grief & Loss

Continuing-bonds model, meaning-making, member-paced

Developed byOneVillage-developedOneVillage
Length
8 weeks
2 four-week modules
Sessions
5 in total
45 min each
Cadence
every other week
stepping down to every other week

Who this is for

Adults grieving any loss - person, relationship, identity, ability. Active SI / complicated grief features routed to LCSW immediately. Pet loss recognized as legitimate.

What brings people here

Recent loss (<24 months); PG-13 elevated; bereavement leave returning; HR referral; self-referral.

Clinical framework

OneVillage-developed (standard grief outcomes literature).

How the 8 weeks run

Onboard
Before you begin

Baseline assessments, your first SMART goal, and the 1:1 that sets up everything after it.

Build
Weeks 1 to 3

Specialist coaches rotate in, and sessions come thickest here. One change at a time, in the domains your baseline flagged.

Mid-program
Week 4

Re-score, refresh the care plan, and check in 1:1 on what is and is not working.

Integrate
Weeks 5 to 7

The remaining domains, at a lighter cadence, and the work of making the early weeks hold under pressure.

Maintain
Week 8

Final re-score, relapse prevention, and the plan for what happens next.

When your sessions fall

The program is built in four-week modules. Sessions come thickest at the start, when what you decide matters most, and step down as things settle. That is 5 sessions of 45 minutes across 8 weeks, counting the visit before week 1.

ModuleWeeksSessionsCadence
Module 1Weeks 1 to 42every other week
Module 2Weeks 5 to 82every other week

Week by week

  1. Before you begin
    Before you begin

    This is the reading before your first visit. It is unusual for a health program, because the first thing it has to tell you is that most people in your position do not need a program. That is not a way of turning you away. It is the finding this whole pathway is designed around.

  2. Week 1
    What grief does to a body

    Nothing in this week is asking you to feel differently. It is here because grief has physical effects that are better measured than almost anything else in this field, and because knowing that changes what you do about your body over the next two months.

  3. Week 2
    Sleep

    This week you meet Kelly Day O'Brien, a sleep coach. Of everything in these eight weeks, this session has the best claim to changing something, and the reason is worth explaining rather than asserting.

  4. Week 3
    Continuing bonds

    This is a short week on purpose. It explains the idea the pathway is organized around, and then it tells you exactly how much evidence stands behind that idea, which is less than you would guess from how confidently it is usually stated.

  5. Week 4
    Halfway: the sorting question, asked again

    This week you see Cindy again and repeat the four measures from week 0. The point of the re-score is not progress. It is the same sorting question asked with four more weeks of information: is this grief taking its course, or has it become something with a name and a treatment?

  6. Week 5
    The things that carry real risk

    This is the week the program stops being gentle about a few specific things. Not because grief is dangerous, but because three particular risks are raised after a loss, and all three are ones people tend not to raise themselves.

  7. Week 6
    Who you are now

    This week you meet Kimberly Macon, a mindset coach. Before that session, you should know how the evidence for this part of the program compares with the evidence for week 2, because it is not the same and we are not going to pretend it is.

  8. Week 7
    Anniversaries, and the losses nobody counts

    A great deal is written about anniversary reactions, most of it from clinical experience rather than data. There is one hard piece of evidence, and it is worth reading exactly rather than in summary.

  9. Week 8
    What continues

    Week 8 is a handover, not a finish line. Grief does not run on an eight-week schedule and this program has never claimed it does. What ends this week is the structure. What continues is everything you decided to keep.

Who you will work with

Your Whole Health Coach takes your first visit and closes every module, so it is the same person from the first session to the last. The specialists below lead the weeks where their work is the focus.

Cindy Cathcart
Cindy Cathcart, RN, MSN, BCPA
Whole Health Coach

Professionally, Cindy has been a clinical nurse for nearly a decade. She served in both clinical and administrative capacities throughout her career and holds a Master's degree in Nursing Leadership. As a staff nurse, nurse leader, and quality improvement specialist, she led multidisciplinary teams in academic medical settings throughout Boston, New York, and Ohio to deliver high-quality care to patients across complex diagnoses.

Kelly Day O'Brien
Kelly Day O'Brien, NBC-HWC
Sleep Coach

Kelly is a sleep behavior expert who connects to clients with genuine curiosity and compassion to unlock their potential for positive change. Sleep is a universal need AND is completely unique to the individual. No two sleep profiles are the same and Kelly uses multi-faceted and science-based approaches to support an understanding of the client’s desired outcome.

Kimberly Macon
Kimberly Macon
Mindset Coach

Meet Kimberly Macon, Professional Certified Coach (PCC), wife, mother, and a cancer survivor specialized in helping OneVillage members build mental resilience in the face of difficult situations and life changing events. Kimberly spent more than 15 years working in various roles across the Consumer Packaged Goods Industry within Marketing, Brand Management, Sales and Business Development.

What we work on

DomainWhat this pathway does
Nutrition & MetabolismGrief disrupts appetite. Simple, regular meals. Hydration.
Movement & MobilityMovement as grief support. Gentle, non-performative.
Sleep & RecoveryGrief disrupts sleep. ISI tracked. Avoid alcohol-as-sleep.
Stress & ResilienceGrief is exhausting at a nervous-system level. Daily rhythm.
Mind & MoodPG-13 + PHQ-9 + C-SSRS. Complicated grief assessed at 6 months.
Relationships & PurposeRe-engagement at member's pace. Anniversaries planned for.

How progress is measured

These are the validated tools this pathway uses: at your first visit, at the mid-program review, and at the end.

ToolCadenceOwned by
PG-13 (Prolonged Grief Disorder)Onboard, q4 weeks after 6 mo from lossGrief Coach
PHQ-9 + GAD-7Onboard, q4 weeksWHC
C-SSRSOnboard; PRN concernLCSW
ISIOnboard, q4 weeksSleep Coach
Activity / engagement logWeekly during RebuildExercise Coach

The research behind this pathway

Your clinician playbook was built from the guidelines and studies below. They are listed so you can read them yourself: every one is a real, published paper and the number at the end of each line is its PubMed ID.

Guidelines this pathway follows

  • Prolonged grief disorder criteria · DSM-5-TR and ICD-11

    How this pathway distinguishes grief taking its course from grief that has become an illness. PMID 33432758

  • Complicated grief treatment · Shear and colleagues

    The evidence-based structure behind the pathway's later modules. PMID 27276373

Key studies

  • Prigerson HG et al. (2009). PLoS Med
    Prolonged grief disorder: Psychometric validation of criteria proposed for DSM-V and ICD-11

    The study that set the criteria for prolonged grief disorder, distinguishing grief that is taking its course from grief that has become an illness. PMID 19652695

  • Prigerson HG et al. (2021). World Psychiatry
    Validation of the new DSM-5-TR criteria for prolonged grief disorder and the PG-13-Revised (PG-13-R) scale

    Validated the current criteria and the PG-13-Revised scale, which is the measure this pathway repeats. PMID 33432758

  • Shear MK et al. (2016). JAMA Psychiatry
    Optimizing Treatment of Complicated Grief: A Randomized Clinical Trial

    Randomized 395 adults with complicated grief to grief-focused psychotherapy, an antidepressant, both, or a pill placebo. The psychotherapy was what worked. PMID 27276373

  • Boelen PA et al. (2007). J Consult Clin Psychol
    Treatment of complicated grief: a comparison between cognitive-behavioral therapy and supportive counseling

    Compared cognitive behavioral therapy against supportive counseling in 54 people with complicated grief. The structured therapy did better, and the order mattered: exposure first, then cognitive work. PMID 17469885

  • Stroebe M et al. (2007). Lancet
    Health outcomes of bereavement

    Reviewed the health consequences of bereavement, including the raised risk of dying in the first weeks and months. It is why this pathway starts with practical support, not insight. PMID 18068517

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